Tag Archives: Bisexual

The Pendulum

I often use scales in my sessions with clients. Both as a way to identify current placement compared to one’s ‘preferred future’ and as a measure of progress. With the scales that I use, 10 is always the ‘destination’ as … Continue reading

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Define Yourself

Harvey Fierstein once said: “Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself.” I think one of the advantages of being in the LGBT community, is that … Continue reading

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Taking the Wheel…

Sometimes with my gay and lesbian clients who come in as individuals, there is some relationship in their life that is a struggle for them, and they’re hoping to be able to do something different to help that relationship get … Continue reading

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The Impacts of Coming Out

Coming out as gay or lesbian is a process, and it means different things to each individual who goes through it.  When a client comes into my office struggling with the coming out process, I typically take them through an … Continue reading

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